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Community Talk => General Talk => Topic started by: WIpilot on August 06, 2009, 11:45:47 PM
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So today my mom gets home at about 4pm from 3 days of taking care of my grandpa becose he has cancer and needs help with daily activitys. My mom and dad go out to eat or some shit and then probably went to the bar. Well they get home at about 10pm and my mom ask me if there were any phone calls, the my dad blows up and starts going on some rant that I never pick up the phone and how I'm just a useless smartass. My dad and beer I guess do not get along or he is just a fucking asshole, i don't know which tho, But he just goes off like that all the time. Well he went to bed and my mom was on the phone with my aunt about my grandpa cus it was my aunts tun to take care of him. My mom gets done and goes to bed well I go and get on the KEA server to cool down a bit. Then a little latter I hear some yelling and some shit and, well let's just say my parents got into a little confrontation. I go up stairs to were they are to see what the hell is going on, when i get up there my parents are yelling and he says to me to get the fuck out. My dad kept going on about some shit and telling me and my mom to pack are bags and get the fuck out of "his" house. I just wanted to go in there and beat the living hell out of my so called "dad", but I'm still afraid of what he might do. He has always told me that I'm useless and don't do shit, but it has really esculated ever seince I turned 18. This is not the first time that my dad has done shit like this but I just want to get my mom and me the fuck out of there now. The thing is that my job is not paying me shit and my mom got laid off a couple years ago so I don't really have anywere to go. So WTF.
I'm sorry about me ranting like this but I just don't know what to do about this shit. I'm sorry I guess I just wanted to get my feelings out and maby get some advice from someone. In the mean time I'm just siting he looking at the clock thinking about shit.
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hum. this is a problem. have you considered over time? your dad can have an "accident" and you can reap the life insurance. haha. jk. dont know man. stay with a relative.
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The only relatives that live close to me are my two sisters but they already have full houses and the rest of my family is 2 or more hours away, and I don't have shit for gas. Plus I don't want to be a burdon on anyone.
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i have a big ass bed.....
j/k, my dad was throwing shit at my step mom once, and when i intervened, he started pushing me. not wanting to hit him(kinda weird hitting your dad i think), i put him in a head lock, slammed his head into a few things, then pinned him on the floor til he agreed to gtfo of his house. im not suggesting that you attempt such an effort, it may not work so well. you should probably find a roommate or a room for rent in a house. its a lot cheaper to rent a room from someone who owns a house, check out craigslist.
i have a big ass bed and like to cuddle..... ;)
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I'll say no to the big ass bed cuddling shit thank you. And I would love to do that but... Idk. Ya I do need to find a place tho :(
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I'll say no to the big ass bed cuddling shit thank you. And I would love to do that but... Idk. Ya I do need to find a place tho :(
fine, ill sell the big ass bed and by a smaller one so we can be closer.
im serious, check out craiglist under 'rooms for rent,' just put in your city. make sure to talk to the people and stuff and check out the accommodations first, and make sure you can afford it. i rented a room once when i was poor, but now i live alone and have a big ass comfortable bed with lotsa room for wipilot.....
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Ya I'll check it out, I just don't want to get some crazy person with a big ass bed to be my roomie. I don't know were my mom can go tho.
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i am pretty sure that your mom will not go anywhere, women always seem to stay in relationships when they should go. your best bet is to move out and be happy yourself. your mom is gonna have to decide for herself what to do.
1000 thread count sheets, lotsa pillows
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Idk, I think she might be just staying in the crappy relationshp becouse of me and my sisters going thru school and stuff, but now that I'm done with school I think that she might leave cus I'm the youngist. Ether I have to get away or my drunk asshole of a dad needs to change, but I don't think that will happen.
To many pillows can be bad.
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Well, I thank god that I have never been in such a pickle but... my dad always say that he will kick me out cuz I eat too much. And quite frankly your "dad" as you called him has the same power. You are over 18, and it IS his house because he pays/paid for it. I would hope that he would show some love being that your his son, but then again, maby after 18 years he is done with you and needs you to go away for a while.
With that said I suggest that you go on some type of vacation although you are "shit broke" as you called it. Just...live in your car/truck for a week or more, make money while your "out" by weed-eating/helping old ladies carry groceries out to their car, just something to keep your mind off home/family and make money. And when you come back he may embrace you because he loves you and missed you. Rather then pushing you farther and farther away.
Or if that's not AT ALL possible just live with a friend for a week.........just get away.......
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D-man, I am glad too that you have a loving dad, but the fact is my dad has not said I love you or anything in as long as I can remember, I look at my friends dads and I am jealous at how there dads are so nice and loving. I do want to get away and I might have to sleep in my car, thank god I got a big jeep that can fit a mattress in the back.
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join the army.. get away for a few years.. earn some money.. get out of the house.. also tell ur dad that since u are now in the army.. if he does anything to ur mom.. u will kill him.. well.. just imply it.. but like i said.. join the army.. be good for u..
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Idk about the military, I have thought about it but idk If I could leave all my friends like that, or leave my mom alone with him.
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FUCK THE ARMY. If he is just verbal abusing you, you could save more $$$ for rent or look for a 2nd job. Maybe try to get away for a day or two when not working even if it means sleeping in your jeep/car. As your Grandad's health plus other stuff has laid lots of stress on your Dad.
SAVE $$$$$$$ and try to avoid this cruel person. Sry to hear about your Grandfather by the way. CANCER SUCKS. >:(
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I joined the military reserves for a couple years and during the summer you go away for a couple of years and make a few G's!!! but its up to u.. You DO make other friends in the military for sure... If I were u i would talk to my mom and see wtf is up and see what SHE wants to do if shes being stubborn and says shes not going anywhere then u can try to talk her out of it but chances of taht working are slim. If she agrees then u should move with the relative if theyre are 2 hours away ask them to pick u up and im sure they will. If u cant do that then for the next week or so try to find a full time job somewhere probably fast food and tell ur dad to give u guys a few days just to find a job..
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i have a big ass bed and like to cuddle..... ;)
I love to cuddle!!!
Is this only a problem when alcohol is involved? Does he act decently when sober?
He could be stressed that as you said, your mom lost her job and the financial problems stress him out too much. I guess you could try to find a time when hes in a good mood and try talking to him.
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man im sorry to hear all that,i guess if i was in ur shoes id get a 2nd job just to stay away from him and save some cash to gtfo..if all fails you can always stay with my sis for a while..heres a pic of her.
(http://i709.photobucket.com/albums/ww93/henk_04/HotChickInPinkPanties.jpg)
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Way hotter then Zone Troopers sister imo
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i didnt know so many KEA's had such a big heart?!?!?
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(http://i709.photobucket.com/albums/ww93/henk_04/HotChickInPinkPanties.jpg)
that use to be my background till my gf started living here.
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that use to be my background till my gf started living here.
YOU!! WITH MY LITTLE SISTER!! YOU!!
nnnNNOOOOoo!
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Damn fury, she is HOT!!!!
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Damn fury, she is HOT!!!!
yeah i wish i was born in arkansas.. :D
anyway,we'r missing the point here
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I thought we answered the question.
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I thought we answered the question.
yes, we did answer the question. Thats why there are all these BS posts... But its good fun.... until it starts to get out of hand...
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Its amazing how a picture can make us turn our backs on the guy in a lot of trouble.
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Its amazing how a picture can make us turn our backs on the guy in a lot of trouble.
i rememeber when i was 17..my sis was makin a lot of noise and shit while i was in the bathroom gettin ready to go out on a date..then my dad comes outta his bedroom all pissed and (assuming it was me) slapped me in the face as i was leaving..i got so out of control i punched him in the jaw so hard i almost knock him out..took him a good 10 seconds to stand up and realize his son wasnt a kid anymore..gave me a weird..evil look and went back where he came from..i didnt know what to do so i left the house and the next day,i apologyzed..he´s never hit me since
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i remember when i was 17..my sis was making a lot of noise and shit while i was in the bathroom gettin ready to go out on a date..then my dad comes outta his bedroom all pissed and (assuming it was me) slapped me in the face as i was leaving..i got so out of control i punched him in the jaw so hard i almost knock him out..took him a good 10 second to stand up and realize his son wasn't a kid anymore..gave me a weird..evil look and went back where he came from..i didn't know what to do so i left the house and then next day,i apologyzed..He's never hit me since
Same thing happened to me when I was 16. I was the oldest so I took beatings for everything. I came home late from school for diner. He conered me in the kitchen and started beating me with a toilet plunger. I kicked him in the chest and he fell back and landed on the table and a be piece of glass went in his back. I took off for two days and the cops brought me home. He had to get 6 stitches in his back. He never hit me again. He never apologized for the beatings he gave me. I never apologized for the incident. He of course now has past on, however, I felt guilty for hurting him.
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that use to be my background till my gf started living here.
gf?? wtf banem, youre breaking my heart
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Hey. If all else fails and you cant work it out. I can go down there and give him an old fashioned ass whuping?
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Okay, it's like I overheard someone say recently, Opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one and they all stink or buttpirate throws a salami in it, but here is mine.
Violence never solves anything, in fact it usually creates more problems.
Your father as an alcoholic drunken asshole, would most likely go into a state of Drunken Berserker Rage as soon as you hit him, and then you would probably end up using a weapon on him and going to prison where you meet Buttpirate's cousin bubba.
As for where to go, I heard the Mickey D's has a nice dumpster with all you can eat fries.
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Dude, my dad tried that shit with me, he pushed me to the point where I got up and fucking kicked his ass. Have not had trouble since.